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The Rarity (QTAF)

Quirky Traditional Alpha Female

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I'll admit, it's kinda nice hearing that someone thinks you and the guy you're interested in would make a cute couple.....

but at the same time, it just reminds you that, wait, you're not a couple.

You Are An INFP

The Idealist You are a creative person with a great imagination. You enjoy living in your own inner world. Open minded and accepting, you strive for harmony in your important relationships. It takes a long time for people to get to know you. You are hesitant to let people get close to you. But once you care for someone, you do everything you can to help them grow and develop. In love, you tend to have high (and often unrealistic) standards. You are very sensitive. You tend to have intense feelings. At work, you need to do something that expresses your personal values. You would make an excellent writer, psychologist, or artist. How you see yourself: Unselfish, empathetic, and spiritual When other people don't get you, they see you as: Unrealistic, naive, and weak

so I’ve been neglecting this journal for a while now... it’s not that I have lost interest in Livejournal (I still check it at least every other day) it’s just my life has been... well boring as far as happenings.

I have been at Pep Direct for about three months now, and I am loving the job. I am a lot happier than I was towards the last couple months of my job at wendy’s. Though I’ll admit, i do miss the people that I worked with, I don’t miss the stress. And apparently there is a lot more drama & back stabbing going on. Something that I just don’t want to deal with or be involved with; granted, there will always be that kinda thing, but at least the high school drama aspect is no longer there. Just petty adults. Now the only thing i really stress about is whether or not I’ll make good numbers or whether or not the lead guy is flirting with me. :-D

Even if nothing comes from flirting with said lead guy, I am actually, happy with the whole situation. It feels nice to actually feel butterflies in your stomach again at the sight of a guy. Especially a guy whose older, and an artist. That just made him even more awesome- the artist part, the older part I don’t really care about, but I figure I’ve dated all guys who were younger than me, older would be a nice change. I was worried for a while that I was still in love with Matt, wouldn’t want anyone else but Matt. I still do love him in a way, and I think that, because we didn’t really end on bad terms, a part of me will always love him and want to be with him. But I am ready to move on. I am happy and secure in all aspects of my life, I just want someone to share it with.
I don’t think people I’ve told about this stuff really understand, but it feels amazing to just be interested in a guy again. And I act like such a silly school girl around him- I forget how to talk, and I’ve hit my head a couple times now because we were talking and I forgot about the electronics box that’s head level to me. Never realized how easily I blushed before.... Yeah, I’m a dork, I’ll admit it.

So the job is going well, the apartment is going well. Thanks to the tax refund & econimc stimulus package, I am now back on track as far as finances. This makes me happy, but can also be dangerous as I sit there and think “well, now i can afford it so why not buy it?” I’m trying to save up for some big toys- such as a new sound system for my car and a motorcycle (which is something that I’ve wanted since I was around 16) The spring weather also kinda helps with those thoughts.. the warm weather makes me think of how awesome the drive to work would be on a bike. Plus, there is the trip to dublin with manda next year. So many things I want, not enough money :-P

But yes, i am alive, and doing well. I have been trying to eat healthier, and since I’ve left Wendy’s, I have lost weight, which is nice. So, trying to lose weight & get a bit more in shape.

you know, I wish I wasn’t so clueless when it comes to flirting....

*le sigh*

so i've been at my new job for about five... weeks now.

And I've actually really been liking it. When the machines actually decide to behave... I've been tempted to kick & or throw shit a couple times.

it has been a different experience, but I've been enjoying it. And the hours aren't that bad, though I've thrown my sleep cycle for a loop and it's still trying to catch up. When I don't have work, I stay up till around 6 or 7 in the morning, and then sleep until 6 in the afternoon. And even when I do have work, I've been sleeping all day lately. What would be ideal is for me to get up for a couple of hours, in order to do all the stuff that I need to do (or just sit on my ass and watch TV) and then sleep for a couple hours before I go to work. I'm trying to get back into that routine. Of course, my wonderful neighbors upstairs decide to blast their music loud enough that I can hear it in my living-room when I'm trying to sleep. Oh well....

also, I think the lead person in my area is cute ( I also thought his brother was cute when I met him like a couple years ago....) it's actually kinda nice to be working with guys who aren't jail bait. I'm actually the youngest person in the printing area, which is something that never happened at my old job. I was always one of the older ones. I think it's funny that a lot of people seemed surprise that I'm 23 and already living on my own (and that I cook for myself all the time)
A couple of the guys seems to treat me like a little sister; but I really don't mind. They defended me when there were some issues (already I had people talking shit about me... ) and they always let me know whether or not I'm doing things right, or show me what I'm doing wrong. Plus, they like to make me jump (coming up behind me and talking in my ear, or pulling on my chair) They seem to get a kick out of it....

and my cat likes the gnaw on my hair.... it feels kinda weird.

there are times that I can't believe how fast life can change. Your world can be turned upside down with one statement. Mine was:
Your contract with ************ has been terminated

That's right, they fired me.

Actually, they're fired me about three weeks ago. There really isn't a worse feeling that losing your job; that desperate panic of "what now?" All I could think of was how I did not want to lose my apartment, my credit would be screwed, how the hell was I going to pay for school and my car. There had been some issues the week before, starting with the general manager only giving me 25 hours- he was leaving and a new GM was coming in. I think the old GM talked shit about me, so the new GM was intent on getting rid of me. She apparently smiled when she said that she was going to fire me. They fired me for not following cash procedures. I had a drawer that was short $80. Yes, I messed up, and I understand that. What I really don't understand is since I left, there has been both $225 and $290 missing from both the registers and the safe. And those managers still have their jobs. Nice huh?

But honestly, I'm glad that I'm gone. The only thing that I miss is crew (well, like 4 of them) and one of the managers. I had fallen into a rut where I was comfortable with my job and not trying to advance anywhere. The only thing was now I needed a new job. Luckily, my mother's company was hiring. So now I am working third shift (11pm-7am) at Pep Direct as a Print Operator. I think this will be a good change for me. It's something that at least has something to do with my major, and although it's a $.14 cut in pay, it is guaranteed 40 hours with overtime and medical, dental and eye insurance for less than what i was paying for just health at ***************. Plus, I have been around that plant since I was in diapers- I use to run around on the floor, or in the parking lot racing barefoot with my brother. Or all the times I would spend hours in the cafeteria waiting for my mom to get out of work, digging around the vending machines for extra change.

And my dad said that he was proud of me. Actually he was laughing at me cause I was talking about making chicken parm to bring into work, since now I actually have to make my lunches instead of just munching off stuff at work. I never use to cook, but since I've started living on my own, that is something i have come to enjoy... but he said he was proud of me. And that made me feel good. There are times I wonder if I am making any more progress to becoming more of an adult, or if I am stuck in between that area of adulthood and still dependent on your parents. But I still hate having my parents pay for things that I can pay for myself. I feel like that takes away my independence. And I know that my parents are having hard times themselves; I know they can't help me as much as they want to. It was nice hearing that your parents think that you're doing a good job with your life....

Now off to make dinner for tonight before I head off to sleep for a couple of hours...

Even though it's a day late, I just wanted to wish everyone a Merry Christmas.

Hope everyone got exactly what they wanted and had a wonderful christmas with friends and family. Mine was a lot better than the one last year- no tension, no screaming or crying. Just family, baking, food and of course presents. Even though I got rear ended on my way to work Tuesday night by a drunk driver on Granite Street. Well, I'm assuming she's drunk, since when we pulled over to exchange information, she drove off. I was so pissed... especially since this time it was my car, not some rental. That was my baby that she ran into. Luckily, it looks all superficial, just a large crack in my rear bumper and bent the top of my trunk. And I've finally been able to get it run right since it's visits to Quirk. *sniffs* Great way to start the Christmas vacation.

Unfortunately, I wasn't able to buy all the presents that I wanted to- I had to skip getting things for my parents and my grandparents, but oh well... the economy sucks, everyone had some difficulties, plus there were some other issues that I'll discuss later. I still managed to buy for Brian, Ashley (she was my "Secret Santa" for Christmas eve) and G.C.- I got him this playdough set that had this little swiss army knife and all these cool little tools, really cheap from K.B. Toys since they're going out of business. It just didn't feel right not buying for a 4 year old.

I spent Christmas Eve at my aunt & uncle's house with my mother's side of the family, plus my dad. And what did I get?
a couple pictures frames, two long sleeved shirts from Victoria Secret, a vest and scarf from Old Navy, a shelf, Iron Man & Chocolat, the soundtrack to Juno (I love the music in that movie) some candles, some christmas decorations, a cook book, aaaannd Guitar Hero: World Tour *big grin*
Unfortunately, I can't play guitar hero until I get another AC adaptor for my playstation.....

I spent the night over at my mother's so that I could stay over and help with some last minutes Christmas gifts. I felt bad though, I ended up sleeping to late in order to help her too much. We both went up to my grandparents for Chinese food. By the time we got back, it was the huge massive rush that happens every Christmas to get things done so that we could go to Al's family's christmas party. I wanted to go this year, since last year I didn't get the chance to go. It was nice- a lot of things seemed to have changed since last time I saw them... there was a new baby (which was a huge shock) and people had tattoos that I have never noticed before. Even though I might not like Al that much, I do really like his family. Especially his sisters, they're just fun to be around. And they're very warm, very welcoming... they make you feel like you're part of the family. I think mom making them cookies and candies every year helps; they said they would take mom over Al if they break up. :-D

It was a nice Christmas, a nice way to end a year that has probably not been the best for me. Telling one of Al's sisters and her niece about it, they were joking that it could be made into a Lifetime movie. But hopefully things will be getting better; they're starting to look up. If there is one thing that this year has taught me, is to not focus on the bad and to look forward to the good....

I was just curious as to how many of these I have actually read... there was a time from like between my senior year of high school to the first year of college where I was trying to read a lot more of what's considered the classics, just to say that i have read them....
And I read some of them, but a lot of the ones from this list were school readings, so that doesn't really count....

1) Look at the list and make bold those you have read.
2) Italicize those you intend to read.
3) Underline the books you LOVE.
4) Reprint this list in your LJ



( The list....  )

Plus, I'm trying to get my mind off some stuff....

I went and saw the Trans Siberian Orchestra concert today with my dad, Manda and Chrissy. Dave actually was going to the same show, so him & I plotted to surprise Manda and Chrissy. It worked perfectly -evil grin-

They changed the show from what it has been for the last couple years, but it was a nice change.

And they played 2 Savatage songs as a tribute to Criss Oliva, who died 15 years ago and was one of their founding members.

And I'll admit, when I heard the first cords of the song Believe, I nearly screamed- I started to cry. Yes, I'll admit I cried... that was been one of my favorite songs for a long time; I just think it is so beautiful.

That just made my whole night

So after all those one night stands
You've ended up with heart in hand
A child alone
On your own
Retreating
Regretful for the things you're not
And all the dreams you haven't got
Without a home
A heart of stone
Lies bleeding
And for all the roads you've followed
And for all you did not find
And for all the things you had to leave behind
I am the way, I am the light
I am the dark inside the night
I hear your hopes
I feel your dreams
And in the dark I hear your screams
Don't turn away
Just take my hand
And when you make your final stand
I'll be right there, I'll never leave
All I ask of you is believe
You're childhood eyes were so intense
While bartering your innocence
For bits of string, the grown up wings you needed
But when you had to add them up
You found that they were not enough
to get you in and pay for sins
Repeated
And for all the roads you followed
And for all the tears you've cried
And for all the fears you've had to keep inside
I am the way, I am the light
I am the dark inside the night
I hear your hopes
I feel your dreams
And in the dark I hear your screams
Don't turn away
Just take my hand
And when you make your final stand
I'll be right there, I'll never leave
All I ask of you is
Believe

although I'll admit that I really do love living on my own, there are some things that I miss about living with someone, especially when I was living with Matt.

This includes folding laundry together and having someone help with the dishes...
these are really the only chores that I don't like doing.... I'm just going to have to learn to deal now...

I went and was actually pretty productive today....


went to karate class and got a nice little work out in this morning :-D
bought cat food and kitty litter
ate Subway (yummy and had extra for dinner!)
watched another disc of Heroes: Season 1
went looking for frames for the two pictures I have left to put on my walls... a picture of Jesus carrying the cross from the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum and then an Ansel Adams... and no such luck
came home and started looking online for said frames- started compiling a christmas list in the process... figured that's a good way to get some stuff I want for the apartment but am to poor to really justify buying myself...
did the dishes (while watching a show on Discovery called "Machines of Malice" about instruments of torture)
was able to get rid of three more boxes- yes, I still have boxes (!!!!!!!) moved my mixer into the kitchen (that's a novelty isn't it?) and just put some stuff away/rearranged it... while watching more "Machines of Malice"
I actually have some stuff to get rid of, I just don't know where to take it; either a dump or goodwill maybe?

And I was suppose to go clubbing tonight but people backed out on me... oh well, I have to open tomorrow anyway...

All that still needs to be done is a shower, laundry and I'm making a display board for my grandmother for the Legion but I can do that tomorrow..

And not bad at all since my last day off (Thursday) I slept for like 13 hours and made myself pizza...

so i was talking to my grandparents about what's been going on at work (2 times the cops have shown up and the fry station fire) and my grandfather started laughing and asked when I was going to start writing my book...

I debated the idea of creating a blog about the being a recently graduated graphic designer... and I may actually do it, but with the twist of being a recently graduated graphic designer with a job as a manager at Wendy's...

opinions?
I might just do it for the hell of it, but I'm kinda curious as to what people think...

Before thursday and friday, the last day off I had was Tuesday last week... and most people would probably say so what, that's only 7 days of work, but the way my schedule has been, I have been exhausted....
It's been:
Wednesday: Open (8-5)
Thursday: Close (5-1:30)
Friday: Close (6-2, almost 3) this was suppose to be my day off but Amy called me into close at River Road
Saturday: Close (5-2:30) this was the night that one of my closers quit, so I had to beg one of the guys to stay... (by the time I left, I was at 13 hours of overtime)
Sunday: Open (8-6) and of course, the next day was when two people called out on me, and we were wicked busy. I had to call people & beg them to come in so it wouldn't be me and one other person for 3 hours. And also, one of my crew got a threatening phone call from one of the girl's boyfriends... fun fun
Monday: Close (3-12:30) surprisingly, it went extremely well
Tuesday: Close (4-12:30) again, went pretty well... even with the two guys making water balloons out of the condoms that someone left there... that has it's own story.
Wednesday: Open (8-6) I was suppose to get out at 3, but it was a case of people calling out, leaving the covering manager with only one other person, so I stayed because I felt bad... and of course, 2 hours later I get called back because the fry station caught on fire.... I didn't leave for a couple hours cause I was helping out by doing inventory of everything we had to throw out and the nightly paperwork...


And in between that I have been trying to have a life- I went down and saw the treasures of Brookline last Saturday with manda and chrissy. It was nice just wandering around the ball park looking at different businesses and things that people do in Brookline. Being at the ball park makes me feel like I'm 12 again, as it always does. I just remember how I use to be there every saturday for our soccer games and Brian's baseball... how adam and I would wander around digging in the trashes looking for sprite bottle caps for the prizes. How I use to beg my mom for money to buy hot dogs and gatorade after a game....

I need to go away for a couple days; I need a vacation. Luckily I have 6 days paid vacation coming my way... at least I think it's 6. I had three in May, and then three in November. I never took the ones in May, so they should just add up and give me six days? I hope... that would be nice. I took a mini- mini vacation the end of September up to Maine with manda and Dave. And that was amazing. Dave's work was having a BBQ/tailgating thing for the people at the marina on one of the islands, so we got to go out on Dave's boat and spend the night . We moored next to his boss's boat, which was a gorgeous sailboat, and we ate and hung out there. They were so nice and sweet, they adopted us. Everyone is Maine was really nice and really welcoming, so I didn't even feel shy about talking to people. And they all knew Dave, which was kinda funny. He even got his own chant when we came up to the islands. Unfortunately, I could only stay the night, I had to be back at work the next day to close... it made me actually sad to have to leave; I so did not want to go to work....

Don't get me wrong; I do enjoy my job for the most part. I like most of the crew (okay, so like 4 or 5 of them out of like 14 i can say I actually like, the rest I tolerate) but the ones that I do like, I have a lot of fun with. There usually is a lot of laughing and swearing and goofing off, but we still get stuff done. And I like my fellow manager Suzanne, so for the most part the job is enjoyable. I just am beginning to feel a bit burnt out & realized that I need to get away for awhile...

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so, things for the past month have been hectic, and there has been a lot of change. I have started the new chapter in my life... and so far so good....

Just to officially announce it here, I have in fact move out of Washington Park. They weren't going to give me the apartment down the hall based on my income, and I just kind of gave up on trying to find another one there. Instead, I now live off of Hanover Street, in an apartment building called Cathedral Place. It's a small, one bedroom apartment- it's just a kitchen/living room, bedroom and bathroom, but it's a good size for one person. Actually, I really do love it here. I love living on my own, and i like being about a 20 minute walk from downtown Manchester.

(haha, I have peeeectures! Behold!)
( Peectures of the Aaaaaapartment! )

But since the chaos that was the month of July, between:
A) my car accident- I was going up for Amber's bridal shower, and at first I hydroplaned into a ditched and had to be towed out and then I was rear ended while going 60 miles an hour... the guy fell asleep behind the wheel (they estimated that he was doing about 70) I went to the hospital for minor whiplash and my poor dad had to come all the way up to Vermont to come and get me- the car was totaled beyond repair; luckily I was not in the Aveo, which was in the shop for repairs and I was in a rental from Quirk. Yeah, completely totaled. $15000 worth of damage totaled. It was impressive. (just recapping for those who haven't really talked to me and or heard about it on facebook)
B) Dealing with the police in my case concerning who stole the money from me. Probably can't go into details, but most people probably have figured out who it was. I am pressing charges, and am actually still in the process because they didn't admit to stealing all of the money from me....
and
C) Dealing with the whole moving thing- I had to deal a lot with trying to get Kassie's stuff out so that it would not cost me money out of my security deposit. I had my stuff out within two days... she took a week to get her furniture out. I was not happy... but I realized that I can definitely depend on my family and my

It was a lot to deal with within a month, especially from someone who grew up in a small town where half of this stuff just doesn't happen to people. It was a lot of growing up within one month. But now, things have settled down. I used most of my security deposit to pay off the bills that I owed (like comcast, some medical bills and stuff like that) so I have started off in a new place with a clean slate. Also, Matt and I have started talking again, which is nice. I hope that we can become friends... and who knows what the future brings. We're both kinda keeping our options open, but we both admit that we're enjoying living on our own and being selfish 23 year olds. I have given up on Eric too... he has a girlfriend-thing now and has changed a lot, so I have pretty much washed my hands of him. I actually am really not interested in anyone at the moment, which although it feels kinda weird, is really not all that bad.

so yeah, that's where my life has gone and where it is heading....It seems like it is the right path for me at the moment, so I'm just going to continue...

Take a picture of yourself right now.
Don't change your clothes, don't fix your hair...just take a picture.
Post that picture with NO editing.
Post these instructions with your picture.

Just proof that I do in fact exist & have not disappeared down a black hole... (plus, you can see a corner of my new apartment -grins-)

I am attempting to write a big post about the happenings of my life up till now, just have to get the motivation to sit down and write...

There are other things going on in my life... but at the moment

I'm moving the day after tomorrow, and while I'm excited, part of me doesn't want to go.

K, so I am a bad live journal writer person and I have been meaning to do these for a while, but the whole lack of internet has kinda put a damper on that...

Sorry Audrey :-D

1. Would you ever consider getting a sleeve? Or are you just more into singular tatoos like the ones you have?

I don't think I would ever personally get a sleeve unless it was one whole cohesive design. Honestly, I never really liked sleeves on girls, I thought they looked strange.
2. Whats your guilty pleasure?

Anything to do with cooking. My guilty pleasure when it comes to TV is the Food Network, and I can actually sit and read cookbooks/food blogs for hours...
3. What is the weirdest place you have ever 'done it'

Side of a car, in a church parking lot -winks-
4. What was the first video game you ever played?

I think it was something really dumb & childish... I wanna say it was Disney's Beauty and the Beast for the Sega
5. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

I think either I would either stay here in New England, or I would go to Ireland... Italy would be kinda cool too. I want someplace with culture, but some country too so I could get away when I want to.

i have been without internet for the past few weeks now, so the chance to update, hell to even check my mail, has come few and far between. Mostly it's whenever I can get over to River Road and steal Wendy's Wi-Fi. And that's what I'm doing now -grins-

And things are, I dunno how they're going at the moment. I want to say that they are getting better, and for the most part I really do believe they are, it's just there is some stuff that is up in the air right now that I am not comfortable with it being in that state.
I am not renewing the lease with Kassie. I am tired of living with a roommate, and $125 a week is to much of a financial burden for her. And i don't want to put her into debt just because I want to stay in Washington Park. Which is what I plan to do. I have started the process of getting myself a one bedroom apartment there. It's around $800 a month for a 750 square foot 1 bedroom apartment.
I know that's a lot, but I really enjoy the area and the apartments are nice- and to be honest, I am tired of moving. I want to stay in one place for more than a year. My friends (plus a certain someone) are all in the area, my job is in the area. I like having a place with a pool and a clubhouse. So I am willing to pay the little extra money for a nice apartment. It just means that I need to get a part time job, and I was going to do that anyway. The only problem as of now is that I have to prove to Washington Park that I can pay for the apartment and not let it be my whole income. Which means I have to prove that I have a second job. Which I am in the process of getting now. It's just kind of frustrating because everything is in the air at the moment. And I thought that everything was all set. And what sucks is that it's across the hall and down about 5 stairs from where I am now. Don't even have to pack up my stuff....

I don't mind the idea of having a second job. In fact, in a way it makes me feel that much more mature. In my mind it means that I am taking my life into my hands and making things work. I am watching out for me and only me. This is something that I need to do at this moment in my life. I can't worry about others- don't get my wrong, I would still help out my friends when they need me, but I can't put myself in a spot by doing so. I have almost faced putting myself in a credit blackhole and it did not feel good. I am 23 years old, I can't be irresponsible anymore. I have to work to earn my living now. Especially since I am on my own- I really can't depend on mommy or daddy to get me out everytime I find myself in a tight spot. They can't afford to get me out of a tight spot. So I just put my nose to the grindstone, and work my butt off at how many jobs I need to to make ends meet, and hopefully save up a bit more. Things would be a lot easier if I had a graphic design job, but I hate to say that searching for one has kind of taken a back seat to just working and sleeping (pretty much all I do) Plus, not having internet access at your house doesn't really help. Put I think that that job will eventually come. I am confident that I will find a job in my field. I'll probably keep at least another job as a part time thing just to get a bit of extra money, but the graphic design job will come.

As I said, life is kind of up in the air right now, but I am confident I will be happy when things come down.